These types of predators will string you along until you catch on.Remember this is your life , you are in full control of the outcome.Submission, The state of being obedient : the act of accepting the authority or control of someone else. Many who are first entering the lifestyle will feel rushed , and may even have that feeling of being overwhelmed. If it is just fantasy and the relationship ends , then it was the Dom who abuse you , or so you think.
It does take time to figure out who is real and those who are just looking for a quick fuck.
You may say well I am a submissive , and someone try to tell you your a slave or a baby girl when in fact your a submissive.
Your going to listen because this Dom has told you he has 100 years in the lifestyle.
The key to your success in the lifestyle is being able to be you.
The key is finding someone who will except you for you. Those two words again Choices and Consequences those two words will make you or break you and your answers need to be clear and straight forward. You already know the answer to that question or you should if not then your answer would be , you know I am not sure I am willing to explore a little. You have to remember every submissive is different , every submissive has different needs , just as with a slave or a Baby girl.